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By Christine Chacha
It’s a proven fact that most successful people in this world have made it by capitalising on other people’s weaknesses. They know what characters to look for in people and use it to their advantage.
We live in a capitalist world where only the crafty and smart survive. I found this to be true in matters of the heart, too. No one is born an expert in relationships, however, it appears that others score better than others because they are cunning and can exploit weaknesses.
I came to a crude reality recently while in a male group advice session. While some bragged about being ‘Tigers’ when it comes to scoring with ladies, another complained how women have become hard.
The ‘Tigers’ were telling the others how they scores with women.
According to them the key to success is to find a weak point and exploit to the maximum.
They claim to have studied women and therefore they know the type of women that are not ‘hard’ to score. “Some traits in women make them easy prey,” said one who added that all they have to do is to use them to their advantage and voila!. They classified them as :
The cougar
According to Tigers, she is the easiest of them all, you do not have to try too hard to impress, since she is on a hunting mission, too. She knows exactly what she wants and is not interested in games. She may be married or divorced, but in most cases financially independent. What makes her an easy piece is the fact that she goes out to pick younger men who find her desirable. According to the men, all they have to do is show interest in her and the cougar ‘anajipa’.
The tissue lady
This is a fragile one recovering from a break-up and is on the rebound, she is emotionally vulnerable. And as it turns out, her misery is every man’s joy, all they have to do is be available throughout her healing process.
They say a woman recovering from a break up is easy to spot as in most cases she will be in company of her girlfriends. Unlike her friends, she acts timidly flirtation-wise .
So according to them, all one has to do is be the guy that makes her feel sexy and beautiful.
Her friends are likely to push her into giving the first man who shows interest in her a try so she can forget about the ex, so no much work needed; some well placed complements here and there, maybe alcohol and she is game.
The sexplorer
Practice makes perfect as they say, so there are women who are into trying out things. Sexplorers are mostly, high school, college and university students who have just had first time experiences. She is the woman who wants to experiment sexually , she knows she has things to learn and looks forward to it.
A woman who is leaving her parents nest, eager to catch up on all she has been missing out on.
All one has to do to win her is to show her that they have all she wants-the experience in bed.
The man’s confidence and mystery attracts her most because she wants to quell her curiosity. This perhaps tells why fatakis score well with young women
The bachelorette beauty
I now know why weddings attract many men even when they have no business there .There are easy women there who get carried away by the event. A bachelorette beauty is the woman at a bride’s party mostly a friend of the bride.
In some cases it’s a group of single women having fun spurred on by the spirit of the day and with some glasses of wine, most women tend to be more talkative and friendly to men. The women are quick to down their guards and that’s when the man strikes.
I don’t want to categorise you, but the fact is that men are watching, looking for a window of opportunity.
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