Forget PYTs, older women are yummy
What you need to know:
- Women in their 40s and 50s women are more sexually mature; less inhibited in expressing their needs, and more open to sexual experimentation and trying new things.
We, the Adams of this world gawp and unabashedly stare at the beauties – “the pretty young things” (PYTs) as we cross over the Kigamboni creek or at the mall.
We wish to turn back the hands of time to the days when we were witty and handsome but this is impossible. These are mostly college girls going back to their hostels.
On the same ferry, I have noticed well-groomed, attractive, calm and exceedingly sexy women – they are over forty and look so inviting only that most of them are people’s wives and I suspect that having someone literally stab you in the back or rip your stomach over his wife, you are left with one job. You “eat with your eyes” as they say in the streets.
If many men were to speak the truth, including men in their twenties, they will tell that they have always been attracted women in their 40s and 50s. I am not talking about those young men who wear their trousers loose, exposing their diapers looking for a mother figure especially one with loads of money and swanky cars.
I am talking about real men. Some men will tell you that they lost their virginity to older women, their teachers or a lonely woman next door. This is perfectly normal.
Firstly, they are not the mobile phone-totting scatterbrains that millennials and Generation-Z girls have become. They are accommodative and are never after your wallet. An older woman will be kind to me, made me laugh, she is also beautiful.
She dresses classy, has sexy curves and making love to her is a natural progression. She does not make love to impress with her fake antics. She is unhurried and speaks the right things. She makes love purely for pleasure.
I can relate to this. In the neighbourhood, there is this divorcee, independent, beautiful and fun to be with. She is more physically attractive than the young girls I know and enjoys a beer with me.
Older women usually understand things, while younger women will be so judgemental and cheap in their worldview.
Women in their 40s and 50s women are more sexually mature; less inhibited in expressing their needs, and more open to sexual experimentation and trying new things. There is less pressure on the man to be initiating and carrying the sex act on his own since there is equal participation on both ends.
Who needs PYTs anyway?
